Here we start with the civil ceremony (in Latvia, it is only legal to marry inside a church or the city hall- so DS and KB had to do this first).
Enter the Vedej Paris (the sponsoring couple)

And a few hours later begins the pagan ritual of marriage...
The ceremony was led by the couple in blue. In this picture the lady is
starting to pass around a ball of yarn, that we all held standing in a circle,
and which she tied off to actually form a ring of yarn.

After everyone introduced themselves all around and stated their relationship to the Couple, we place the yarn around the fire pit.

DS gets ready to wear her last vainags (that is the flower wreath- married women wear caps or headscarves, only unmarried women get to wear vainagi)

DS and KB see if they can hold on to water. The saying goes that if you can hold on to water, then you will also be able to hold on to love.

A lot of ceremonial stuff happened around or in the fire- here DS and KB build and light it together.

DS and KB stand back to back and are blessed with burning herbs while we all chant a mantra about God keeping them safe.

Now their hands are tied together- to remind them that their souls are similarly connected for the rest of their lives- a moment later, their hands were released- but not their souls, oh no! :)

DS gets led around the fire by her sister and the lady in one last show off in her vainags and as an unmarried woman

DS chooses a young woman to pass her vainags on to- in this she also wishes that the woman find the same luck in finding a husband as she has had.

After we spoke all of our wishes for her (I said "Kids!" loudly!), and threw grains of wheat on her, she was uncovered- look how happy she is to get out! :)

And moving on to the reception site
IG and I swing a bit while waiting for the couple to get there...

When they arrived, we decided not to let them in. They had to sing to us before we let them pass. They also bribed some people into letting go their hands (and thereby letting them through) with beer.



























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