Sunday, April 24, 2011

Beni turns 1!

On the one hand, think what we've done, what we've experienced, where we've been, who we've spent time with, etc, etc... on the other hand HOW IS IT POSSIBLE MY BABY IS 1????

On her birthday... my big girl!

We had a lovely party for Beni yesterday, even though neither she nor I were feeling all that well. We picked up some germs upon reaching Michigan. Beni got a pretty bad cough, a stuffy/runny/incredibly snotty nose and a generally bad attitude. I have had just a stuffy nose and the accompanying raw nose/dry lips, etc. Anyway, we've both been having trouble sleeping, feeling grumpy, etc. So, needless to say, neither of us were really in a good place to have a house full of people, Beni wasn't really ready to be the center of attention, and she had pretty much no interest in opening presents. Oh, and thank goodness for nursing, because the child hasn't eaten more than three bites of solid food since this whole thing started (yeah, she didn't eat any cake). Sigh.

The cake I spent hours making, that Beni didn't even taste. It's ok, everyone else liked it!

When she's not sick (ok, even when she is) she's pretty amazing! We've decided that she has spoken and consistently uses her first word- hi! She says both hi and hey. She uses them appropriately and on her own (not just repeating or saying them when someone tells her to).

Dressed up for her birthday party, eating hummus
She is also walking more than she is crawling now. In fact, if she happens to lose her balance and end up on her bum, she stands back up, she doesn't crawl. She spends a lot of time walking just for the sake of walking. She also likes to walk pretty much everywhere- around the house, outside, in the bath, on the bed, etc... EVERYWHERE! She toddles around like a....well, a toddler! :) Amazing!

Party in the living room! Balloons = decoration!
Beni still nurses like it's her job. Maybe it is. She goes through phases with foods... liking one thing one week, something else another week. She's still particular about textures- she'll only eat super smooth purees or finger foods- nothing thick or chunky. Her favorites remain black beans, cheese, Vegemite (which she seriously sucks straight out of the tube) and recently yogurt.

She loves to climb stairs, and knows how to go up and down, although it's hardly safe for her to go down on her own. She also knows how to scoot off the bed, off the couch, etc. She also loves to put things in things (like, say, put all her bath toys in the bucket) or to take everything out of somewhere (like unpacking the cupboards). We are currently living with my step-sister and her two kids, one of which is a three month old preemie (he's 6.5 lbs now!), and when I hold him Beni gets INSANELY jealous. She tries to climb into my lap the moment I am holding him. It's pretty funny. Thank goodness a sibling will take however long plus at least 9 mos...seems she needs the time! :)

Beni and her cake
So the grumpy girl is 1, not feeling well, but continuing to be pretty darn awesome in the face of it all. More pictures are on facebook! Enjoy!

Sunday, April 03, 2011

Already starting....


Beni's first birthday festivities are already starting, and her birthday isn't for 21 more days. I'm having a hard time dealing with that... I mean... how can she be 1 already??? It's just not right! :)

Today we had a farewell BBQ with about 30 of our friends here in Luanda. Because Beni's birthday is so soon after we leave here, I decided to make a cake for today. I know a few of our friends were sad they wouldn't get to celebrate this milestone- so, we made it a part of today.

Her cake was a hit- she didn't actually have any. :) But it was (as pictured above- although this picture was taken after the cake was transported back upstairs by men, who squished it) two layers of my standard chocolate cake, frosted with buttercream frosting and filled with a layer of whole raspberries (frozen, but still tasty). I got a whole lot of, "Oh, Mara, this cake is SO GOOD!" Just the kind of comment I like to hear. :) Some of the kids in attendance had seconds. I guess that isn't really saying much, because lots of kids would eat seconds of any cake. That said, as a teacher, I have seen more kids than you would believe turn their nose up at a cake that just wasn't nice, so, maybe it means more than I think. :)

Beni is growing. On her 11 month birthday she weighed in at 19lbs and was 28 inches tall. She's grown almost 10 inches in her first year. I don't know if that is normal, or small, but, to me, it seems HUGE. When I rock her in the rocking chair at night when she's woken, but doesn't need to nurse, her head rests on my shoulder, and her KNEES fall below my belly button... they pretty much fit into the angle where my legs meet my body. What happened to the tiny baby whose whole length could fit between my chin and belly button (ok, scrunched up in that newborn way)? I miss her! Or...I want another! ;)

Beni is amazing, and probably deserves the many birthday parties she will have. :) One down here... my brothers and sisters-in-law keep saying we will have to celebrate while we're in Colorado, so that will be a second... and then the last official party will be April 23rd in the States. After that it is likely she will have at least two more occasions when she will be showered with gifts by people who can't make it to the party. Should be fun for her.

I kiss her goodnight and can't help but stare at her face almost every night when I put her to bed. I just can't get over how perfect she is. How awesome she is. How she has already changed the world. Being her mother is such an honor!